Best marriage advice roundup

Best marriage advice round up

Marriage-The act of uniting a man and woman for life; wedlock; the legal union of a man and woman for life. marriage is a contract both civil and religious, by which the parties engage to live together in mutual affection and fidelity, till death shall separate them- Webster’s 1828 dictionary

Marriage-the state of being united as spouses in a consensual and contractual relationship recognized by law- Merriam Webster, modern day

The last few seasons have been marked with unwelcome challenges in my life, that definitely affected my marriage. My husband and I have been faced with obstacles we’d hoped to never revisit, and the truth is, we didn’t always handle it well.

When we were tired and irritable and fearful? It felt almost impossible to treat each other with kindness some days. To not take out all of our frustrations on each other. There were days we just had to chalk it up to a flop and start fresh.

Again, and again.

However, the history of our love and commitment kept us secure in the knowledge that we were truly a team. That we would be there for each other through it all, even when we were frankly, tired of trying.

Marriage advice from old couples

Healthy marriages are imperfect, and that is ok!

Reading the above definitions, did you catch the shift? We choose to fight for the gift of “mutual affection till death shall separate us”. The distinction matters.

Both of our girls will be married within 6 months of each other in our season. We pray that they have seen our determination throughout their lives, and will emulate it. That they will expect respect from their spouse, and extend that gift in return.

Our hearts deeply hope that they will fight through the inexperience of young love and reap the reward, the prize, of love well earned.

Healthy marriage is a gift I am constantly thankful for, and how we hope that our children have chosen partners that will live gratefully for the gift of a devoted wife!

Marriage advice from people who’ve been there

One of the fun things I have the opportunity to do, is to occasionally showcase the work of other communicators!

I am part of a wonderful group of bloggers, and I’ve asked them to share their top posts on the topic of marriage. I think you’ll be blessed by these talented writers!

Marriage is by far one of the most vulnerable things to write about. Baring your soul isn’t easy, and we all learn about marriage from trials and triumphs.

“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” – Mignon McLaughlin

It takes courage to put it out there when experience is our guide. Please take a moment to leave them a comment as you visit and tell them I said hello!

17 inspiring writers share their best marriage advice

Married By His Grace – 67 Encouraging things to say to your husband and 5 things I pray for myself to become a better wife

A Divine Encounter– How to be happily married in a world of unhappy marriages

Mamie Pack – 3 signs you’re sabotaging your marriage (and what you can do about it) and Wife life: 3 prayers that changed my marriage

My Joy In Chaos– 5 ways to keep your marriage fun and 7 ways to pray for your relationship

Pretty Simple Ideas – How I’m still becoming “wife material”

Lily Mags & Co– Surviving the first 5 years of marriage

Sandra’s Ark– I love marriage (things I love #18)

Faithfully Planted- 8 things your husband needs you to be praying for

Woman Of Noble Character– Dating your husband for a love that lasts a lifetime

Angel Penn– Praying for your husband (6 priorities for a Godly marriage)

1 Corinthians 16:14, Do everything in love

Fishbowl Family- How to balance kids and marriage

Resurrecting Marriage– Transform your marriage with an intimacy challenge

Sincerely Christi- Love is a choice and I got to do better

Ordinarily Extraordinary Mom– 37 reasons I love you (what good marriage looks like)

Families With Grace– Beyond the vows: In sickness and in health

Bringing Back The Peace– How to help your husband grow spiritually

Minding The Kings– 7 practical tips to get your marriage back on track

When marriage struggles

Marriage is a topic that I passionately advocate for. Common challenges include an unwilling spouse, a sensitive issue of struggle with infidelity or pornography, or our own baggage that makes us the problem.

My heart goes out to each and every unique situation.

While I am clearly a big advocate for working out your marriage (I’ve seen amazing turnaround on the impossible-seeming situation!) that doesn’t mean this advice applies to ALL marriages. If you are married to someone who abuses you, whether physically, psychologically, or emotionally? Get help, and if you need to, please get out for your safety ♥