Hospitality at home-How to fake a clean house
Hospitality at home – how to fake a clean house
I’m running a bit short on time today, which actually ties in well for the topic of inviting people into your home with little advance notice. Yikes!
We often discuss the importance of hospitality.
Let’s take the pressure off a bit…I want to encourage you to not make entertaining such a big deal.
Getting prepared is often described as a HUGE deterrent when we consider having company. I believe that if we have a home, a space…we all benefit when we invite people into them.
We labor to make a house a home, then every time we’re expecting visitors, we rush to turn it back into a house. – Robert Brault
But we are often short on time, aren’t we? Stretched. Overwhelmed. That contributes to the false idea (I used to believe it too!) that the whole house had to be spotless to have people over. Wrong.
Tidy? Sure.
Sterile? Not necessary.
how to make your house look clean fast
Grab a multi-purpose cleaner and a few rags:
- Wipe counters and sinks
- Grab an empty laundry basket and walk around putting things in that go in other rooms. For now, stash away to be sorted later
- Wipe down the bathroom, making sure to check under the toilet seat
- Sweep and vacuum the areas people will be in only
- Open the windows to let in fresh air for a bit
The homes I like the best are totally occupied, busy, and useful, whether it’s a tiny little house or a great big one. Rarely do you find a great big house that’s used in a good way. So I prefer smaller spaces that are full of things that people are doing. – Martha Stewart
- Pick up the entryway and if time, clear the doorway outside of debris
- If you have pets, take a piece of tape or lint roller and run over furniture
- Still have a few minutes? For a casual get-together, don’t underestimate the power of a tray. It has been amazing over the years to see how special people feel when we set out a tray, put a cloth napkin on it, a pitcher or teapot and some pretty glasses. Maybe a small plate of some snack (it REALLY doesn’t matter what, I promise that it’s the presence of it that is the present)
Clean the house AFTER people leave
I realized that I was dog tired before people came, and then cleaned thoroughly AGAIN after people left. Can you relate?
So, simplify before (we do want people to be comfortable) and clean when they leave (we want to be comfortable too).
I am thankful for the mess to clean after a party because it means I have been surrounded by friends. – Nancie J. Carmody
After all, the joy of people over in reality often means spilled items, tracked in foot debris, etc.
That is life. We all live it too. Enjoy the people and keep it simple.
PS. check out this post about how one avocado changed a life when one friend invited me into an impromptu life-changing encounter, messy house and all.
Great homemaking resources:
- Extraordinary Hospitality for Ordinary Christians: A Radical Approach to Preparing Your Heart & Home for Gospel-Centered Community
- The Lost Art of Hospitality: Making People Feel Welcome in Your HomeÂ
- Just Open the Door – Bible Study Book: A Study of Biblical Hospitality
- Not Just A Mom: The Extraordinary Worth of Motherhood & HomemakingÂ
- Having a Martha Home the Mary Way: 31 Days to a Clean House and a Satisfied Soul
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Love this.
Practical, helpful tips. Thanks Christa. Good post.
It used to be there would be impromptu times. Times of pop ins. No longer are they part of our culture. But perhaps the reason those times were some of the “funnest,” was because there was no time to worry about the state of our abode. A quick apology, a gracious response and we were on to having fun.
Anne, what a good point you make! People used to just stop by. We’ve lived here five years now, I can count how many times, with my hands only, that people have just stopped by. Used to be a way of life. I miss it. There wasn’t the stress of “prep time” was there?
Very wise words, my friend! I think that when we strive too hard for our homes to look perfect, we inadvertently make our guests feel less welcome…like visiting a museum. Better for them to see that we are real (imperfect) people and get down to the business of honest connection, yes?
Love, Christa!
That’s what I would do…if mom was not around.
I have an inspector in the house, and if I did not spick and span, she would do it herself. Perfectionist of the highest level! 🙂
Love this! I just love your blog !
Thanks Stephanie, you just made my day